Overcoming Dental Anxiety: A Story of Strength, Spirit & Self-Advocacy

Hey, beautiful souls! 🌟

If you’re new here, welcome! I’m Laura, a psychic medium, astrologer, and the heart behind Northern Light Lotus. I share daily astrological insights, personal experiences, and spiritual guidance to help you navigate life with clarity, confidence, and connection.

And to my returning readers—you already know how much I love having you here! 💖 This space is where we explore the energy of the cosmos, the signs Spirit sends us, and the lessons we learn along the way.

Today, I want to share something deeply personal—a journey of facing fear, trusting in support, and realizing how healing unfolds in layers.

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🌿 A Personal Reflection: Healing, Support & Trusting the Process

As I was sitting with today’s astrology, reflecting on the themes of healing, renewal, and trusting in divine timing, I couldn’t help but think about my own journey—facing fears and learning who and what truly supports me. And strangely enough, the moment that came to mind wasn’t a grand cosmic revelation—it was my trip to the dentist’s chair.

For a long time, I carried deep dental anxiety stemming from childhood experiences where I wasn’t given enough Novocain and felt every bit of the procedures. It was terrifying—so much so that I avoided the dentist for a decade. But pain and fear have a way of catching up with us when left unaddressed.

So, over the past five years, I have been slowly restoring my teeth, one appointment at a time. It wasn’t easy. At first, I could only handle one procedure every six months—sometimes even a year. But I kept showing up, pushing through the fear, reminding myself that healing happens in layers.

And this past week, I faced my biggest fear yet—I got a tooth implant. After years of work, this was the final piece. The missing tooth had once been a root canal that I waited too long to crown, and eventually, it chipped so badly that it had to be pulled. For a long time, I thought I’d just live with the missing tooth. But something shifted within me—I didn’t want to carry the weight of unfinished healing.

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💫 The Moments That Almost Stopped Me

Leading up to the surgery, fear hit me like a tidal wave. I made the mistake of looking up dental implant horror stories, and suddenly, my mind was filled with worst-case scenarios. The fear became so intense that I almost canceled the entire thing.

But Spirit stepped in.

A message came through so clearly:

“The loudest voices belong to those who had the worst experiences. There are so many more who had positive experiences, but they don’t feel the need to speak up because everything went smoothly.”

It hit me. How often do we let fear win simply because the loudest voices in the room are the negative ones? How often do we assume the worst because we only hear from those who suffered?

That realization shifted something in me. I remembered that I, too, have had bad experiences, but I have also had many positive ones. What I’ve learned is that advocating for yourself makes all the difference. Choosing a dentist you trust, speaking up when something doesn’t feel right, and trusting your intuition—it all matters.

And this is why I want to tell my story. Because fear shouldn’t be the only thing that gets a voice.

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🕊️ Spirit’s Presence: A Sign in the X-Ray Room

On the day of the procedure, Spirit showed up for me in the most unexpected way.

As I sat in the chair, the assistant prepped me for an X-ray. The machine moved into place, and I heard a robotic voice say:

“Please remain still as we take your image.”

Then, as the machine began whirling around my head, metal clamps securing me in place, I heard something unexpected.

Merry-go-round music.

And at that moment, I knew Ryan was with me.

Ryan, my dear friend in Spirit, was always a jokester in life—and apparently, that hasn’t changed. As the machine spun, I heard him in my mind, clear as day, pretending to be a 1950s carnival ride conductor.

“Step right up, folks! That’ll be five cents for the ride—buckle in, enjoy the ride, kiddos!”

I nearly laughed out loud. In a moment that should have been anxiety-inducing, I felt nothing but comfort. He was there. Spirit was there. I wasn’t alone.

And that wasn’t the only moment.

During the actual procedure, I could feel Spirit all around me. The presence of my angels, my guides, Ryan standing behind me. I wasn’t just imagining it—I knew I was being supported in a way that words could never fully explain.

And suddenly, it didn’t feel so terrifying anymore.

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🌊 Learning Who Truly Shows Up for You

This experience also opened my eyes to the people in my life who stood by me—and those who didn’t.

When you go through something difficult, you start to notice who truly supports you, who checks in, who offers encouragement without being asked. And on the flip side, you notice who stays silent, who dismisses your fears, who disappears when you need them most.

It’s an important realization, though not always an easy one. But today’s astrology mirrors this lesson perfectly—the Grand Trine in Water is about emotional clarity.The Sun and North Node in Pisces remind us to pay attention to what (and who) aligns with our path.

And I’m grateful. Grateful for those who stood by me, and grateful for the clarity to see where my energy is truly valued.

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💖 Final Thoughts: Healing Happens in Layers

This journey—the fear, the trust, and the moments of Spirit showing up—is a reflection of what healing truly is. It isn’t a straight path. It isn’t always easy. But with every step forward, we grow.

Healing isn’t just about fixing what’s broken—it’s about releasing fear, trusting in support, and honoring the journey.

And part of that journey is recognizing that fear often speaks the loudest. When it comes to dental work, people tend to share their worst experiences, but there are so many positive ones that go unheard. That’s why I want to speak up—not just about the challenges, but about what went right.

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✅ In My Experience:

✔️ Cavities being drilled? No pain.

✔️ Root canals? No pain. The real pain comes from an untreated, infected tooth—not the procedure itself.

✔️ Tooth pulled? No pain. The healing was very mild.

✔️ Tooth implant? No pain. The idea of it was scarier than the actual experience.

I was afraid of both the procedure and the after-pain. But I can say that by following my doctor’s instructions—staying on top of prescriptions, resting, and taking care of myself—recovery was smooth.

The only real pain I’ve experienced?

1️⃣ When I couldn’t speak up for what I needed as a kid.

2️⃣ When I left infected teeth untreated instead of addressing the issue.

And that’s why I want to remind you:

You do not need to suffer through pain.

If something doesn’t feel right, speak up. If you have anxiety, talk to your dentist about options. If you need extra support, bring someone with you. There are always ways to make the experience more comfortable.

If there’s anything today’s cosmic energy teaches us, it’s that we are never alone in our healing. Whether it’s Spirit, loved ones, or a supportive professional, there is always someone there to help.

✨ Reminder from the Universe:

“You are supported, even when you can’t see it. Healing is unfolding, even when it feels slow. Trust the journey—you are exactly where you need to be.”

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💬 Let’s Talk:

Does this message resonate with you? Have you ever faced a fear and come out stronger on the other side? Let me know in the comments—I’d love to hear your thoughts! 💖

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🌟 Trusting the Process – A Message for You

If today’s astrology teaches us anything, it’s this: healing, transformation, and clarity don’t happen overnight. Just like my own journey with dental anxiety and finally overcoming one of my biggest fears, your journey—whatever it may be—is unfolding in its own perfect timing.

The cosmos are bringing gentle but powerful energy today, encouraging us all to trust the process, listen to our emotions, and take steady steps forward. The Grand Trine in Water is here to help us find emotional clarity, Mars trine Saturnreminds us that slow and steady action leads to lasting growth, and the Sun and North Node in Pisces are a reminder that you don’t have to have it all figured out—you just have to trust where life is leading you.

So, if you’re feeling uncertain, emotional, or in need of reassurance, take a deep breath. You are supported. You are growing. And the universe is guiding you forward, even if you can’t see the full picture yet.

Let’s see what today holds for your zodiac sign and how you can embrace this energy in your own life.

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✨ March 18, 2025 - Daily Horoscope & Cosmic Tip for Each Sign ✨

The cosmos are encouraging deep reflection, intuitive clarity, and emotional renewal today. There’s no need to rush—trust the timing of your journey. Let’s explore what today holds for your zodiac sign and how to make the most of this energy!

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♈ Aries (March 21 - April 19)

✨ Today’s Energy:

You may feel like you’re at a crossroads, unsure of your next move. Mercury and Venus retrograde in your sign are stirring up past lessons, bringing old relationships, ideas, or challenges back into your awareness. Instead of seeing this as a setback, view it as a chance to refine your path and reconnect with what truly matters.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

If something isn’t working, don’t force it. The best decisions come when you stop overthinking and listen to your instincts. You don’t need all the answers right now—just take the next step.

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♉ Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

✨ Today’s Energy:

The presence of Uranus in your sign is bringing unexpected shifts, but not all change is disruptive. Some shifts bring peace and stability in ways you never expected. You are being guided toward a better version of your life, even if it feels uncertain.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Stay open to new perspectives—sometimes, the universe clears the path in ways we don’t anticipate. A small shift in mindset today could open big doors.

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♊ Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

✨ Today’s Energy:

Your mind is buzzing with ideas, and Jupiter in your sign is expanding your curiosity. But today calls for quiet reflection, not constant movement. Let inspiration flow naturally—sometimes the best breakthroughs happen in stillness.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Take a break from distractions. Your best ideas will come when you create space for them.

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♋ Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

✨ Today’s Energy:

With Mars in Cancer and a Grand Trine in Water, your emotions are powerful guides today. You may feel extra sensitive, but this is a gift—your emotions are guiding you toward deeper clarity.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Honor what your heart needs. Do something today that soothes your soul—journaling, resting, or simply allowing yourself to feel.

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♌ Leo (July 23 - Aug. 22)

✨ Today’s Energy:

You’re feeling called to step into something bigger, but the Grand Trine in Water is reminding you that patience leads to the best results. Your dreams are valid, but they need a solid foundation to thrive.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Don’t rush the process—small, intentional steps will take you much further than pushing ahead too quickly.

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♍ Virgo (Aug. 23 - Sept. 22)

✨ Today’s Energy:

Your intuition is speaking loudly today. The energy is guiding you toward something deeply meaningful—trust your gut, even if logic can’t explain it yet.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

If something doesn’t feel right, trust that. If something sparks excitement, explore it. Your inner knowing is your best guide today.

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♎ Libra (Sept. 23 - Oct. 22)

✨ Today’s Energy:

Venus retrograde is bringing relationships into focus. You may find yourself re-evaluating connections, noticing patterns, or longing for balance. This is a chance to realign with what truly serves your heart.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Before making any big relationship decisions, take time to reflect on what you truly need. You deserve connections that feel balanced and supportive.

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♏ Scorpio (Oct. 23 - Nov. 21)

✨ Today’s Energy:

The Moon in your sign makes this a day of deep realizations. If old emotions resurface, it’s only to help you process, release, and find peace.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Embrace what you’re feeling instead of suppressing it. Your emotions are messages, not obstacles.

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♐ Sagittarius (Nov. 22 - Dec. 21)

✨ Today’s Energy:

Your vision for the future is expanding, but today is about focusing on the present. Even if you don’t see results yet, trust that everything is aligning behind the scenes.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Practice gratitude today. The more you appreciate where you are, the more the universe brings in what you desire.

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♑ Capricorn (Dec. 22 - Jan. 19)

✨ Today’s Energy:

A moment of deep personal growth is happening, even if it feels subtle. Saturn in Pisces reminds you that softness is not weakness—it is wisdom.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Release the pressure. You are allowed to just be today.

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♒ Aquarius (Jan. 20 - Feb. 18)

✨ Today’s Energy:

With Pluto in your sign, transformation is unfolding. You are being guided to let go of the old and embrace your most authentic self.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Release what no longer fits. The right things will find you when you make space for them.

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♓ Pisces (Feb. 19 - March 20)

✨ Today’s Energy:

With so much cosmic energy in your sign, you are deeply connected to the universe today. Pay attention to signs, synchronicities, and intuitive nudges.

🌿 Cosmic Tip:

Let yourself dream big, but also take small, practical steps to bring those dreams to life. Magic happens when dreams and action meet.

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🌟 Final Thought:

Healing, growth, and transformation all happen in layers. Today’s astrology is reminding us that we are always evolving, even when we can’t see it.

✨ Reminder from the Universe:

“You are growing in ways you cannot yet see. Be gentle with yourself—you are doing better than you think.”

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🃏 The Power of an Oracle Message

One of the things that has truly helped me manage anxiety, stress, and decision-making is Oracle cards. As someone who works closely with Spirit, I know that guidance is always available—but sometimes, having a physical sign or a visual confirmation helps reinforce what my intuition already knows.

I have many Oracle decks, but lately, one thing that has been a lifesaver for me is using Oracle card apps on my phone.

I know, I know—some people might think a digital deck isn’t the same as shuffling physical cards. But I’ve learned that when you trust and invite Spirit to come through, they absolutely do—whether it’s through a physical deck or an app on your phone.

When I’ve been overwhelmed, anxious, or unsure of my next step, pulling an Oracle card—even digitally—has brought me instant clarity and calm. It has helped me:

✔️ Pause before reacting

✔️ Make aligned decisions in the moment

✔️ Soothe my mind during moments of fear

✔️ Feel Spirit’s presence in a tangible way

This is something I want to share because if you ever feel lost or uncertain, Spirit is always there to guide you. And sometimes, all you need to do is ask—and be open to receiving.

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✨ Oracle Card Message of the Day ✨

🃏 Card: “Time for a Nap” – from the Wisdom of the Oracle Deck by Colette Baron-Reid

👉 Essential meaning: Rest, rejuvenation, and renewal; temporary non-action; allowing dreams to arise.

🔮 The Oracle’s Message:

This is a time to step away and rest. Let the cares of your world go. Go into a state of non-action, and allow yourself to be free of the shackles of your goals, your lists, your desires. Nothing is as important right now as rest, detachment, and neutrality.

The overly busy mind can block you from inner wisdom if you don’t step back, take a seat, and allow yourself to simply be. Be willing to let dreams surface and ideas flow naturally, absent of force or pressure. Observe without engagement, and trust that everything is unfolding in perfect time.

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💫 Why This Message Feels So Aligned Today

This card has been coming up for me a lot lately, and honestly, I get why.

With Mercury retrograde causing delays, misunderstandings, and mental fog, it’s tempting to push through and try to force solutions. But Spirit has been reminding me over and over again to STOP. REST. LET GO.

Instead of reacting, fixing, or trying to control everything, this card has helped me learn to pause, breathe, and trust. Because sometimes, the best thing we can do is step back, allow clarity to come naturally, and honor our need for stillness.

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🌿  Let Yourself Rest

If you’ve been pushing too hard, feeling mentally exhausted, or unsure of your next step, let this be your sign: You don’t need all the answers today.

Take a nap. Step away. Let yourself breathe. Your inner wisdom is always there, but it speaks the loudest when you’re at peace.

✨ Reminder from the Universe:

“Sometimes the best action is no action at all. Clarity comes when you stop chasing it.”

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💬 What About You?

Do you use Oracle cards (physical or digital)? Have you ever had a message that showed up at the perfect time? Let me know in the comments—I’d love to hear your thoughts! 💖

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🌟 Wrapping It All Up

If there’s one thing I want you to take away from today’s message, it’s this: You are never alone in your journey. Whether it’s facing fears, healing old wounds, or learning to trust the process, we’re all walking through something.

I know this because I’ve been there, too.

If you’re just finding me for the first time, I’m someone who has been through a lot of experiences, just like you. I share astrology, spiritual insights, and personal stories—not because I have all the answers, but because I believe in being raw, honest, and real about the journey. We all go through challenges, and if my experiences can help even one person feel less alone, that means everything to me.

Through Northern Light Lotus, I offer:

✨ Psychic Mediumship Readings – Connecting with Spirit for guidance, clarity, and healing.

✨ Astrology Readings – Helping you understand your soul’s path, strengths, and purpose.

✨ Daily Cosmic Insights – Blending astrology, intuition, and real-life experiences to guide you through the energy of the moment.

If you’d like to learn more about what I offer or book a session, you can find all the details here.

But more than anything, I believe spirituality is about trusting yourself, honoring your path, and knowing you’re always supported.

Wherever you are on your journey, just know—you’re doing better than you think. Spirit sees you. The universe supports you. And you are never walking alone. 💖

✨ Until next time, trust your journey. You are right where you need to be.

Sending you love,

Laura

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